I'm facing that situation in the near future. Being on ignore suits me but wife needs attention.
I had slim hopes the "total ministry" change would make a few visits, but no. The memorial services are given low priority so waiting a month or 2 us normal. Getting 10 minutes on the person is more than usual then the Sunday talk portion. The reception seems to be the draw because ALL witnesses crave a party.
A semi private remembrance is my plan.